Sunday, May 5, 2013

Not Ah Boys to Men

Impromptu 3D2N Chalet 
19042013 - 21042023


BBQ, poker card games, truth or dare all the normal stuffs that people do in chalet. I am too lazy to talk about all these in details haha because its not the things we do that matters, it is the people we hang out with that's important. And with the gang, no where is no fun (: Special thanks to the guys that prepared the food & also cooked the food for all of us ! hehe ^^  Gentlemen lor gentlemen~

But still I guess boys are still boys! I hope they can be more decisive in their decisions like seriously! Be a man hahaha. For the past 2 months, going out have been a chore and we spent too much time thinking about what to do than to really doing it. Man up Man up!

For such a big group of us, there were many challenges since we met during secondary schools. There were addition of people, and sad to say, also people leaving us. But the numbers held on, we are still such a big group after 6 years? And most importantly, we are almost all close to one another. When we split into all different schools, I thought this friendship will be gone, but no, we held on. 

Before february when 4 of the guys were enlisting, I thought that oh gosh, army, book in book out every week, where got time to meet? I thought that this big group of us is gonna "disband". We are not a band but thats the best word I can think of right now. haha. But then again, they prove me wrong, we are as good as we were before right now, or I might say, even better than before. I kind of feel touch but mehh, I will never tell all those douches that (: 


Today, its the shaving for the second batch of guys going into NS this year. After this week, 3/4 of them will be serving our country for the next two years. I've been thinking, is this yet another challenge? This year is a tough year for all of us. The other girls will be entering university soon enough. And poly students like me will be in our third year. FYPs, Internships. Why is it so tough? The next half of 2013 is really gonna be a challenge for all of us to hold on? Who will have the will to hang on? Who will treat us significantly? I really do not know. I am even doubting myself >:( 

I guess I am now prepared for the worst. I am not an optimist. If we really drift apart, I will try my best to remember all the memories that the gang gave me. Its unique and irreplaceable xo. People say instead of having so many friends but none you are comfortable with, its better to have a few that you're close with. But I have so many that I am comfortable with! It's a bonus in my life, why should I give up on them?! 

Also now one by one, each of us will start looking for partners of our life. Its either an addition to us to a subtraction from us. I hope its the addition duh! And now as we run out of places to go and have fun, the guys seems very interested in clubbing~ But there are bound to be people who are against that. Many times we've debated over the topic of clubbing. What I wanna say is don't worry, be happy. There's always a backup plan known as sit down and talk cock !!! I mean we can't do that all the time, but yeah, we can find a balance in clubbing & talk talk (:

PS: May whoever above and below bless that we will make it through 2013 even stronger (:








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